Kick start?

 So I'm trying to get elder back on the rails. 

Dear, mulish elder.

My head hurts just thinking of all the things we need to do. He's doing little to nothing to help his own situation, pleading "frozen with indecision."

We reconnected with the Office for Vocational Rehab, and the half hour on the books stretched for an hour. It was a good meeting, and his case manager gave us a lot of good leads to get started.

But.  He needs to start.  Not me. I did this already.

And he's not wanting to start anything. 

He's got a long list of things he needs to be doing. 

And I can't seem to motivate him to do any of it.